What I find hardest about moving to a new place, is that it takes time to build good friendships, and it hurts to be separated from the friends you already have a depth of relationship with. Of course in time, friendship develops and I am thankful for all of the friends I now have in this country and around the world, who have shared their life with me for a time, and as a result have impacted my life.
Depth of relationship is a precious thing, to be able to talk with a friend and know what they will say before it is said - but listen anyway, to walk for an hour in silence without anything being wrong, to share the closest hopes and dreams and trust they will be taken seriously, to cry about the small things without feeling judged, to laugh until you can't remember why you started laughing, to turn up for tea in scruffy clothes and not feel awkward. To love and to be loved.
It's not easy to get to this point, some friendships naturally develop depth more quickly others take years.
However, depth of relationship only comes with time and effort, and if you have this level of friendship with someone cherish it, nurture it, protect it. If not, well take some advice from Winnie the Pooh, 'You can't stay in your corner of the forest waiting for others to come to you. You have to go to them sometimes.'
"Some friendships do not last, but some friends are more loyal than brothers."
- Proverbs 18:24
Tuesday, 27 September 2011
Sunday, 11 September 2011
Truth and Unity
I feel like God has taken a marker pen and scrawled two words across my heart, TRUTH and UNITY, and I am on what seems a difficult search to find them in churches.
Church A is dead church, they do lots but believe little. Nothing changes, year in, year out. The faithful attending congregation gets older and smaller as time passes. Church is based around social activities which seem like a good idea but are gradually squashing God out of the picture. God doesn't speak today, he certainly doesn't heal today, and people who say they have spiritual giftings are definitely deluded.
Church B is crazy church, 'we are spirit-led' says the sign outside. Led by what spirit you wonder on walking inside, these people are weird. Rocking backwards and forwards, crying, speaking in funny voices. 'We'll skip the bible reading again today', says the preacher - I think God has something else planned. People come and get caught up in the emotion, but without hearing God's good news they remain unchanged and eventually swap church for the next craze...no-one notices they've gone.
Church C is compromise church. Out to fit into the world they have compromised the core values of God's kingdom. They tone down God's awesome grace and power to make it more user friendly. They water down the gospel message, and avoid whole chunks of the word.
Where is the truth? Now these are perhaps extremes but it seems many churches contain elements of one or more of the above, though perhaps unintentionally. In every church I have visited or been part of I have found people are friendly, in each church the leaders are committed to seeking God's will for their church, they spend time each day in prayer and worship, they want to see God's kingdom come. Yet, there seem to be many different teachings (mostly backed up with bible verses) and many different views on how church should work. More and more church groups spring up - each dissatisfied with the attempts of others at church and often very vocal about this. Jesus prayed that the church would be one - yet the further we move from the day he returned to heaven the less unified the church appears. This is not to say that we should appear identical or that new churches shouldn't be started, but perhaps we should spend less time in petty squabbles between churches.
Church should be simple, I don't care what style of music you sing to, or even if you don't sing at all as long as it's worship (of God... not the church denomination or pastor) church is about family, brothers and sisters in Christ, and about growing the family...reaching the lost and pointing to Jesus. Finally church is about being the voice of Christ in the world, his hands and his feet. How can we do this without effectively without desiring to put down deep roots into God's word to know his heart?
I long for Christians to be people who seek the truth, people who take their primary teaching from the word of God, and in this society of broken families I long to see the church as one united family.
Acts 2: 43-47 'Everyone kept feeling a sense of awe; and many wonders and signs were taking place through the apostles. And all those who had believed were together and had all things in common; and they began selling their property and possessions and were sharing them with all, as anyone might have need. Day by day continuing with one mind in the temple, and breaking bread from house to house, they were taking their meals together with gladness and sincerity of heart, praising God and having favor with all the people. And the Lord was adding to their number day by day those who were being saved.'
Church A is dead church, they do lots but believe little. Nothing changes, year in, year out. The faithful attending congregation gets older and smaller as time passes. Church is based around social activities which seem like a good idea but are gradually squashing God out of the picture. God doesn't speak today, he certainly doesn't heal today, and people who say they have spiritual giftings are definitely deluded.
Church B is crazy church, 'we are spirit-led' says the sign outside. Led by what spirit you wonder on walking inside, these people are weird. Rocking backwards and forwards, crying, speaking in funny voices. 'We'll skip the bible reading again today', says the preacher - I think God has something else planned. People come and get caught up in the emotion, but without hearing God's good news they remain unchanged and eventually swap church for the next craze...no-one notices they've gone.
Church C is compromise church. Out to fit into the world they have compromised the core values of God's kingdom. They tone down God's awesome grace and power to make it more user friendly. They water down the gospel message, and avoid whole chunks of the word.
Where is the truth? Now these are perhaps extremes but it seems many churches contain elements of one or more of the above, though perhaps unintentionally. In every church I have visited or been part of I have found people are friendly, in each church the leaders are committed to seeking God's will for their church, they spend time each day in prayer and worship, they want to see God's kingdom come. Yet, there seem to be many different teachings (mostly backed up with bible verses) and many different views on how church should work. More and more church groups spring up - each dissatisfied with the attempts of others at church and often very vocal about this. Jesus prayed that the church would be one - yet the further we move from the day he returned to heaven the less unified the church appears. This is not to say that we should appear identical or that new churches shouldn't be started, but perhaps we should spend less time in petty squabbles between churches.
Church should be simple, I don't care what style of music you sing to, or even if you don't sing at all as long as it's worship (of God... not the church denomination or pastor) church is about family, brothers and sisters in Christ, and about growing the family...reaching the lost and pointing to Jesus. Finally church is about being the voice of Christ in the world, his hands and his feet. How can we do this without effectively without desiring to put down deep roots into God's word to know his heart?
I long for Christians to be people who seek the truth, people who take their primary teaching from the word of God, and in this society of broken families I long to see the church as one united family.
Acts 2: 43-47 'Everyone kept feeling a sense of awe; and many wonders and signs were taking place through the apostles. And all those who had believed were together and had all things in common; and they began selling their property and possessions and were sharing them with all, as anyone might have need. Day by day continuing with one mind in the temple, and breaking bread from house to house, they were taking their meals together with gladness and sincerity of heart, praising God and having favor with all the people. And the Lord was adding to their number day by day those who were being saved.'
Friday, 9 September 2011
Sofa so good
So after five years of being considered a northerner by many of my friends I have most definitely become a southerner...honestly the midlands does exist but apparently only to those who live in it! The move 'up north', despite the hours I committed to stressing about it, went remarkably smoothly. I have according to the local sedgefieldians moved to the posh end of the village, this means a one bedroom apartment in a little block of flats, which to me seems huge compared to the little one room basement flat I lived in two years ago. Magnolia walls and beige carpet throughout, with white paper lampshades, it is perhaps the epitome of the modern rented flat and being unfurnished I have entered the exciting world of owning furniture...
Buying a sofa is an interesting experience, from the second you walk into a shop you are judged, furniture village I wondered round for a good half an hour without anyone approaching me...clearly they had decided I was not going to be buying anything...instead the floor manager's eyes dubiously followed me round the store, it perhaps didn't help that Jonny commented loudly at regular intervals how expensive the shop was! SCS sofas was an entirely different kettle of fish. Here after ten minutes of being closely stalked by the overzealous salesman we made a hasty exit humming the mission impossible theme. In the end I have settled for a homebase sofa in a pretty teal colour, which will look lovely and hopefully make my lounge a little more complete, however, it has yet to arrive and I have yet to discover if they will deliver to a first floor flat - I may have just provided my apartment block with a communal sofa...
Buying a sofa is an interesting experience, from the second you walk into a shop you are judged, furniture village I wondered round for a good half an hour without anyone approaching me...clearly they had decided I was not going to be buying anything...instead the floor manager's eyes dubiously followed me round the store, it perhaps didn't help that Jonny commented loudly at regular intervals how expensive the shop was! SCS sofas was an entirely different kettle of fish. Here after ten minutes of being closely stalked by the overzealous salesman we made a hasty exit humming the mission impossible theme. In the end I have settled for a homebase sofa in a pretty teal colour, which will look lovely and hopefully make my lounge a little more complete, however, it has yet to arrive and I have yet to discover if they will deliver to a first floor flat - I may have just provided my apartment block with a communal sofa...
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